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VIR-III

Own Your Wins. But Do Right in the Dark.

Pillar I — Virtue [VIR]
Do Right Regardless

72 Footings under VIR-III

VIR-III-0001“Something went wrong and it was my fault.”VIR-III-0002“I'm going through a divorce and I feel like a failure.”VIR-III-0003“I feel like I'm failing as a parent.”VIR-III-0004“I admitted my mistake and people respected me more for it.”VIR-III-0005“I'm raising my kids with values I'm proud of.”VIR-III-0006“I'm building a reputation I can stand behind.”VIR-III-0007“I've been getting credit for work that wasn't fully mine.”VIR-III-0008“I did something good and nobody noticed — and that's okay.”VIR-III-0009“I'm proud of how I handled a situation that used to destroy me.”VIR-III-0010“I'm in a situation where everyone around me is cutting corners.”VIR-III-0011“I'm finally becoming someone I respect.”VIR-III-0012“I've been blaming others for something that was partly my fault.”VIR-III-0013“I'm doing the right thing and it still isn't working out.”VIR-III-0014“I took the blame when I could have shifted it.”VIR-III-0015“I went back and corrected something I got wrong earlier.”VIR-III-0016“My work ethic is something I'm genuinely proud of.”VIR-III-0017“I'm learning to be proud of my real accomplishments — not the inflated version.”VIR-III-0018“I'm carrying guilt for something I did years ago.”VIR-III-0019“Someone gave me too much change and I gave it back.”VIR-III-0020“I cut corners on something and now I have to live with the result.”VIR-III-0021“I'm in a season where everything is going well and I want to stay grounded.”VIR-III-0022“I feel like my past makes me a hypocrite for trying to live with integrity now.”VIR-III-0023“No one would ever know if I cut this corner, so why not.”VIR-III-0024“They praised me for the win but it wasn't all my work.”VIR-III-0025“I did the right thing when literally no one would ever know.”VIR-III-0026“They overpaid me by a lot and I sent it back without a word.”VIR-III-0027“I helped someone in a real way and told absolutely no one.”VIR-III-0028“I won big and I'm owning it without letting it go to my head.”VIR-III-0029“Everyone around me cut the corner and I just didn't.”VIR-III-0030“I got praised for the win and made sure my team got the credit too.”VIR-III-0031“The chance to stray was right there and I walked away from it.”VIR-III-0032“I built something good that helps people who'll never know my name.”VIR-III-0033“I went to bed with nothing to hide and slept like a stone.”VIR-III-0034“I'm getting older and I can look back on a mostly honest life.”VIR-III-0035“No one checks the expense reports and I'm tempted to pad mine.”VIR-III-0036“I quietly let people think my team's ideas were mine.”VIR-III-0037“I found a wallet stuffed with cash and no one saw me pick it up.”VIR-III-0038“When things go wrong I instinctively point at someone else.”VIR-III-0039“I could skip the safety step and no one would ever find out.”VIR-III-0040“Everyone online looks like they're winning and I feel like a fraud.”VIR-III-0041“I'm calm in public and I take it out on my family at home.”VIR-III-0042“I could quietly undermine a rival and probably get away with it.”VIR-III-0043“I tell everyone I'm taking care of myself and I'm not.”VIR-III-0044“I got away with something wrong and the guilt won't leave.”VIR-III-0045“I post about my values but I don't live them when no one's looking.”VIR-III-0046“My mistake is about to land on a junior person and I could let it.”VIR-III-0047“Doing the right thing cost me, it didn't work out, and I'd do it again.”VIR-III-0048“Sudden money came in and I didn't cut a single corner getting it.”VIR-III-0049“I did the right thing in a moment no one will ever know about.”VIR-III-0050“They overpaid me by a lot and I returned it without saying anything.”VIR-III-0051“I helped someone in a real way and never told a soul.”VIR-III-0052“They handed me the award and I named everyone who built it with me.”VIR-III-0053“Everyone around me cut the corner and I just quietly didn't.”VIR-III-0054“My boss credited me for a junior's idea, and I corrected him on the spot.”VIR-III-0055“The late-night message came in, and I shut it down before it started.”VIR-III-0056“I fixed a problem the next shift will benefit from and never trace to me.”VIR-III-0057“I realized I have no phone to hide and no story to keep straight.”VIR-III-0058“My grandkids will inherit a name I spent a lifetime keeping clean.”VIR-III-0059“I blew the whistle, it cost me the job, and I don't regret a thing.”VIR-III-0060“No one checks the numbers and I reported every one of them straight.”VIR-III-0061“It went wrong on my watch and I took the whole thing instead of spreading it.”VIR-III-0062“I got the promotion and I'm still treating everyone exactly the same.”VIR-III-0063“I gave generously and anonymously and the joy of it surprised me.”VIR-III-0064“The biggest client of my life asked me to fudge it, and I said no.”VIR-III-0065“My rival won and I gave him real, public credit for it.”VIR-III-0066“I found cash no one saw me pick up and I turned it in.”VIR-III-0067“I poured into a junior who can never repay me, and asked nothing back.”VIR-III-0068“I'm proud of my real accomplishments now, not the inflated version.”VIR-III-0069“The shortcut was completely safe to take and I held my standard anyway.”VIR-III-0070“I quietly made an old wrong right and finally let the guilt go.”VIR-III-0071“No one would ever inspect this and I did the thorough job anyway.”VIR-III-0072“I hit the big goal, owned it fully, and I'm still hungry the next morning.”