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“I'm proud of my real accomplishments now, not the inflated version.”
For years the story got a little bigger each time you told it, and the inflation felt necessary. You stopped — and found that owning the true, smaller version actually feels better than the puffed-up one. Real pride needs no exaggeration; the lie was always a sign you doubted the real thing. You own what you actually did now, at exactly its true size.
Your Practice
- Notice that the honest version feels more solid than the inflated one ever did.
- Catch the inflation when it creeps in and trim it back to true.
- Let your real accomplishments stand on their own. They're enough.
- Trust that earned pride needs no decoration.
The Architects
“Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.”
— Epictetus, Discourses, Book III