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VIR-III-0068

“I'm proud of my real accomplishments now, not the inflated version.”

For years the story got a little bigger each time you told it, and the inflation felt necessary. You stopped — and found that owning the true, smaller version actually feels better than the puffed-up one. Real pride needs no exaggeration; the lie was always a sign you doubted the real thing. You own what you actually did now, at exactly its true size.

Your Practice

  1. Notice that the honest version feels more solid than the inflated one ever did.
  2. Catch the inflation when it creeps in and trim it back to true.
  3. Let your real accomplishments stand on their own. They're enough.
  4. Trust that earned pride needs no decoration.

The Architects

“Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.”

Epictetus, Discourses, Book III