VIR-III-0053
“Everyone around me cut the corner and I just quietly didn't.”
The whole room normalized it, the shortcut, the fudge, the thing 'everybody does.' You didn't, without a speech, without making yourself the hero of it. Doing right when the crowd does wrong, and not needing applause for it, is rare strength. You held your standard alone, and that's exactly when it counts.
Your Practice
- Notice you held your standard without needing anyone to notice.
- Don't moralize at the others. Let your conduct be the only statement.
- Keep the standard whether or not it ever gets recognized.
- Trust that the man who holds the line alone is building something real.
The Architects
“Don't aim at success — the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it.”
Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning, Preface to the 1992 edition (Beacon Press)