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“They praised me for the win but it wasn't all my work.”
The praise feels good and the correction feels costly, so part of you wants to call it 'mostly mine' and move on. That voice — the one certain you've earned it all — is the one to distrust. Owning your real wins means owning their real size, no bigger. The credit you didn't earn isn't a win; it's a debt to the people who did the work.
Your Practice
- Name honestly who did what. Strip the story down to what was actually yours.
- Correct the record publicly where the praise was given: name the people who carried their part.
- Tell those people directly that you saw their work and said so out loud.
- Keep the win that's truly yours and stand tall on it. Owning your real wins includes their real limits.
The Architects
“It is impossible for a man to learn what he thinks he already knows.”
— Epictetus, Discourses