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APX-VI-0060

“I stopped replaying what they did to me and reclaimed my own days.”

APX · Pillar II — Apex APX-VI · Reject the Victim. Become the Author.

Replaying the betrayal kept you the victim and kept them, in your head, in charge of your hours. You stopped the tape. The wrong was real; living inside it was a choice. The day you turned the energy from rehearsing the past to building the present, your days became yours again. Keep them yours.

Your Practice

  1. Notice when the replay starts. Name it and interrupt it on purpose.
  2. Redirect the freed attention to one thing that builds your now.
  3. Accept that understanding their wrong fully won't free you. Living will.
  4. Fill the reclaimed hours with your own life until the tape goes quiet.

The Architects

“From that moment, I understood the pathway from slavery to freedom.”

— Frederick Douglass, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave, Chapter VI, 1845

More under APX-VI

APX-VI-0001“I keep telling myself I'm a victim of my circumstances.”APX-VI-0002“I stopped making excuses and started making moves.”APX-VI-0003“I took full ownership of my life and everything changed.”APX-VI-0004“I've been blaming everyone else for where I am in life.”APX-VI-0005“I successfully rebuilt a habit I'd lost.”APX-VI-0006“I've been waiting for permission to pursue what I actually want.”
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