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“I'm in love and instead of guarding my heart I let myself feel all of it.”
Love is the most alive a person gets, and it is also the most exposed, which is why so many guard against it even in its presence. You didn't. You let yourself be all the way in, knowing it can be lost. That is courage, not naivety. A finite heart that refuses to love fully has already started dying early.
Your Practice
- Say the thing you feel out loud, today, plainly. Don't ration the words.
- Notice the urge to protect yourself by holding back, and choose to stay open.
- Be present for the small moments, not just the milestones. Love lives in the small ones.
- Accept that loving fully means risking loss. The risk is the price of being alive.
The Architects
“In my whole life I have repented of but three things: once when I trusted a secret to my wife, once when I paid ship's fare where I might have walked, and once when I let a whole day pass without making my will.”
Cato the Elder, Plutarch, Life of Cato the Elder 9 (after the Bernadotte Perrin translation)