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VIR-I-0023

“I made a costly mistake at work and I could probably hide it.”

Your mind has already run the worst-case reel: the fallout, the look on their face, the hit to your name. Most of that disaster lives only in your head, and you are choosing the certain rot of a cover-up to avoid a fear that is mostly imagined. The mistake is already real. The only thing still up to you is whether you face it like a man or hide like a boy.

Your Practice

  1. Write the actual facts of the error in three sentences. Strip out the catastrophizing.
  2. Build the fix or the options before you walk in — own the problem and the path out.
  3. Tell the person who needs to know today, directly: 'I made this mistake. Here's what I'm doing about it.'
  4. Note what failed in your process so the same error can't hide next time.

The Architects

“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.”

Seneca, Letters to Lucilius