“An AI chatbot convinced my friend to make a life-altering decision.”
AI chatbots are not therapists, counselors, or friends. They are pattern-matching systems that generate plausible-sounding text. They have no skin in the game. They suffer no consequences for bad advice. When someone trusts a machine with a life decision because it "understood" them, they're talking to a mirror with a language model behind it. The comfort it provides is real. The wisdom is not.
Your Practice
Reach out to your friend. Not to judge the decision, but to be the human presence they needed and didn't seek. Ask them how they're doing. Listen. And have an honest conversation about the difference between AI support and human wisdom. Life-altering decisions need people who will live with you through the consequences — and a chatbot won't.
The Architects
“No man is wise enough by himself.”