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“I gave my team the credit and watched them grow three sizes overnight.”
Building under hoards the credit, because the lower they stay the taller you look. You handed it away — named them, not yourself — and they grew into the recognition. That's the paradox of building with: the credit you give returns as loyalty, and the people you lift lift the whole thing higher. You lost nothing by sharing the light.
Your Practice
- Be specific in the credit you give — who did what. Vague praise grows no one.
- Give it in front of the people whose opinion matters to them.
- Notice that your standing didn't drop when theirs rose. That's build-with at work.
- Make generous, accurate credit your default. Hoarders build under; builders build up.
The Architects
“A man when he has done a good act, does not call out for others to come and see, but he goes on to another act, as a vine goes on to produce again the grapes in season.”
— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, Book 5 (trans. George Long)