VER-XIV-0051
“I mentored someone and watched them pass me, and I'm proud instead of threatened.”
Building under means keeping the people you teach a step below, so you stay needed. You did the opposite, you taught everything you had and cheered when they ran past you. That pride you feel instead of threat is the whole tenet made real. You built someone up and the rising didn't cost you. It crowned you.
Your Practice
- Tell them you see how far they've come. The acknowledgment is part of the gift.
- Hand them the next thing they're ready for, even if it's something you wanted.
- Notice that their rise didn't lower you. Build-with isn't a zero-sum game.
- Find the next person to raise. A builder's legacy is the people who outgrow them.
The Architects
“Just as iron rusts unless it is used, and water putrifies or, in cold, turns to ice, so our intellect spoils unless it is kept in use.”
Leonardo da Vinci, The Notebooks of Leonardo da Vinci, Maxim 1177 (Richter, 1883)