DTH-XII-0023
“I have a clear sense of what I stand for and I'm not apologizing for it.”
Knowing what you stand for and refusing to apologize for it is not arrogance, it is the product of examined living. Most people never get there. They drift. You have done the work of knowing. The practice now is defending that clarity when pressure arrives, and it will arrive.
Your Practice
Write down your top three positions, the things you stand for clearly. Then identify the most likely pressure points: where do people push back on these, or where do circumstances make it tempting to compromise? Prepare your response in advance. Clarity under pressure comes from having already decided.
The Architects
“The tyrant dies and his rule is over; the martyr dies and his rule begins.”
Søren Kierkegaard, Journals, 1848 (Papirer IX A 222; JP VI 6234), Alexander Dru translation (The Journals of Kierkegaard, Harper, 1959)